Finish This #10

Welcome to week 25, but my week 10 of the blogging community link up "Finish This" co-hosted by four awesome ladies!!! If you are new around here, let me quickly explain to you how this works... Each week they (the co-hosts) provide the prompts and we literally finish the sentence with our responses. If you are not new around here, than I am glad to welcome you back again as well. I am excited you have liked what you have read once again and have come back for more!

                           Three 31 // The Java Mama // The Arizona Russums // Coastlined

                                        Here are my responses to this weeks prompts!!! 

 I have a quarter to use a pay phone, I call ….  Lets be real here, when was the last time you used a pay phone.  I mean I have not even seen one in years.. There use to be one right outside my work and it broke, so then they finally just took it out instead of replacing it. I mean having to make a phone call.. isn't that what cell phones are for? lol.. but If I did come across a pay phone and had to make a call, I would most likely call my Mom, because if I was in such dire straights, she would be who I would want to help me out, regardless of the circumstances.  

I found $25 in my pocket, I buy …  hmmm. that is a toughy.. I never buy myself anything special, so I most likely would buy me groceries, or use to it buy me lunch over a few days at work.. and Starbucks!! Cannot go a day without some sort of coffee lol, especially if I am opening at work.. If it is going to be a long day at work and I have to deal with dumb people, because I usually get at least one stupid ass customer a shift, I most definitely need my caffeine fix! 

I have 25 minutes to watch anything on TV, I turn on …  Anything saved on my DVR, which ranges from the trashy reality t.v shows, to sitcoms, and dramas.  It really just depends on what type of mood I am in.  If I am not in the mood to watch anything I have DVR'ed then I usually land on either Will & Grace, CSI Miami, Criminal Minds, Family Feud, Rosanne, or Law & Order: SVU.. because those shows are always on marathons.. 

A meal I can prepare, from start to finish. in 25 minutes or less is … I am definitely no cook, by any means, but I can scramble eggs pretty good, and I love melting cheese and sometimes even mixing in some salsa.. It is a concoction I learned to make from my Dad and it is pretty yummy.  Sometimes I add a little salt in and sometimes I don't.  

At the age of 25, I wish had known … I am 25 now.  So I guess I wish I would have known a few years ago that at age 25 I would be divorced.. I mean I never would regret my marriage, because I was in love and thought it was forever, but maybe me and him could have changed things together that maybe would have changed the outcome and I would not be in the position I am in today.. Maybe not? who knows.. 

If I drove 25 miles (direction) from my house, I’d be in .. Still in Vegas haha.. I would most like be down at the Vegas Strip.. 

Thanks again for stopping by the blog, & continue to come back each week for another round of Finish This! Now it is your turn!! Post your Finish This on your own blog and link it up with all of us!! If you do not have a blog to post to, just comment below with your responses! I am always curious as to what my readers responses would be to same prompts! 

Here are week 26's (July 2nd) Prompts! 

Its never to late to...
I compare myself to others.. 
My personality is...
I can...
I embrace change...

Peace & Love

Molly

Finish This #6

Welcome back to my 6th week here at the blog of the link-up Finish This!! I am a little late on writing/posting this blog post, so sorry for my tardiness.  If you follow my blog, you have seen the few posts.. It has been a big/hectic week. And to continue it tomorrow is my sisters birthday!

 If you are a returning reader, welcome back and thanks for coming back week after week to read the blog!  If you are new around here,  I joined a blog link up that four amazing ladies host- called, you guessed it "Finish This".  They provide the prompts and we finish those prompts with our responses and then add it to the link up for others to read and respond.  It is a fun game where all of us bloggers can "link up" and learn more about each other, find common interests, etc, in a fun and creative way!

Three 31 // The Java Mama // The Arizona Russums // Coastlined

This Weeks Prompts: 

The best mistake I ever made... As weird as it sounds marrying my first and only boyfriend.  Because of what has happened (we are now divorced).  When we were just boyfriend and girlfriend, there were a lot of people in my world that were totally against the relationship, and even more so when we got engaged and then married.  I would not listen to them, believe them, give any of them the light of day, because at the time I was happy, and thought everything was "perfect".  

From this mistake, I learned... I have now learned to really take peoples advice, because the people dishing out said advice, has my best interest at heart, and probably would have saved me from heartbreak.  But also getting married young, and it not working out, I have learned that I definitely do deserve better.  I thought he was the best I could do.  I loved him, do not get me wrong.  I did not marry him with any bad intentions, feelings, concerns, or for the wrong reasons at all.  But I know I deserve a real man who will take care of me and provide for me and our family one day.  Because of my lack of dating experience I did not know that I should have been treated even better, even when we were dating.  So now I can take all that has happened in the past six years of being with that one guy through dating, engagement, marriage, and now divorce, into my next relationship.  To do it better, and to really be more selective, because like I said, I DO deserve better, and better is out there waiting for me!

When I'm anxious, I tell myself... In theory, I tell myself to count down from 10 and to just breathe in and breathe out in hopes that will work, but honestly.. I am awful at talking myself down.  I have been diagnosed with anxiety disorder, and even with medications, at times I have a hard time controlling my anxiety.  I have even gotten rushed to the hospital because I could not get out of my anxiety attack.  So if it is bad, I usually call my Mom or my best friend Jennifer though to try and talk me down.  My Mom is good at being there if part of anxiety is causing me to have a good cry and she gets to me stop somehow, and my best friend is good for giving me advice on whatever is causing me all the anxiety.. and you know what she is usually right and makes me feel better!  I don't know what I would do without either of them!

 

All I really want to do is... I have goals for sure, so if that is what this is asking here they are.  I have a lot of medical debt because of my numerous medical issues in the past few years, and couple that with some credit card debt that I need to get rid of from my irresponsible teenage years, I unfortunately have to file for Bankruptcy.  Once that stress is off my shoulders I want to start the process to do the Gastric Bypass surgery, and once I am healthy enough and can afford it I want to go to Cosmetology School and end up working in a salon doing hair.  I actually already dye my own hair as well my sister and my Moms, and I do not have any formal training, but I would love to learn all the ins and outs.  So either do that full time or have it as a side job and be a stay-at-home Mom, because I really want to be a Mom.  I have an amazing one, and I want to be just like her!  All I ever want to do is make people happy.  I always do for others, and then circle back to myself last, which has its pros and its cons, but I am giver, and I just want to make sure those I love and care for are happy and taken care of.  Obviously all I really want is to be happy and make others happy, so if I succeed in that over the course of my life, that my life was worth living and it was a success! 

(Can I just say, these prompts were the hardest for me to answer since I started participating in this blog link up.. did anyone else have like serious writers block when it came to answering these?)

Now its your turn!  Don't have a blog?, don't fret.. just answer the prompts in the comments section below!!  Then come back next week for another round of Finish This!!! Hopefully I won't be sooo tardy with next weeks post!  

Here are the prompts for next week (June 4) if you are following along and posting your responses! 

I conquer fear...

I follow my heart...

I feed my soul by...

I used to worry about ____ but then I...

Look forward to a blog post on my sisters 17th birthday this weekend!!

It is currently 12:28a.m. on May 31st as I write this, so it is officially her birthday!

Happy Birthday Nicole!!!

Have a great weekend all!!!

Peace & Love

Molly